Have you
ever been in trouble for being who you are? For no reason except that you were
doing your job and living your life, but someone else, because of the clash of
their culture with yours, decided to make your life miserable? It happens,
right?
There are
bullies in this world. Intolerant people. Mean people. There are people who
decide that they don’t like us. Because we are the wrong color, the wrong
gender, or because we are poor, or we are in a same gender loving relationship,
or maybe because we emigrated from the wrong country. Whatever the reason. I
have a friend who was the victim of such a bully. I’ll call my friend Bobbie.
Bobbie
was minding her own business doing her job until “Mean Guy” came along and
decided he did not like her kind. He began to make her life miserable at work.
Bobbie tried to get along. She tried to work around Mean Guy. She adapted. She
made herself sick. She tried to put up with Mean Guy but he was relentless.
Finally, she
could do nothing else but go to a supervisor and complain. The union reps got
involved. Bobbie did not want to get Mean Guy fired. He was too popular and
Bobbie did not want to be the one to get him fired because everyone else would
hate her. She just wanted to get moved to another location to work.
Long
story short, she needed someone else from the union to be a witness to some of
the things Mean Guy had done. Everyone was afraid to do so. Bobbie was off work
for a while and her co-workers would send her texts saying the work environment
was toxic because of Mean Guy. But they were all afraid. Just like Peter, Jesus’
friend, they got scared. They denied their friendship with Bobbie. When she
stood up for herself and spoke the truth about what Mean Guy was doing to make
the work place a toxic environment for everyone, her friends, sadly, turned
their backs on her. When the time came for the hearing with the bosses, she
found a union rep to go with her but it was someone who worked in another area.
We’ll call him Joe. Joe was someone she
did not know but he believed her. However Joe was told he could not talk in the
hearing. He didn’t know anything first hand. He could only sit with her and be
supportive. She was devastated. The one person who believed her story, could
not speak up for her.
But still
Joe believed in her. And that made all the difference. One day when he knew
Bobbie was getting really discouraged, Joe actually snuck into a broom closet
when he was on a break, to call her and encourage her. He did not want her to
lose hope. My friend felt so supported from Joe, hiding in a closet, talking on
his cell phone and caring for her.
Joe was
Jesus for my friend Bobbie. He gave her strength. He let her know she was not
alone. He told her she was right to stand up to the bully. In the end, Bobbie
was able to go work in another location and get away from Mean Guy. It has been
a hard season for Bobbie, but Joe, sitting in that closet on a cell phone
reminded her that she was not alone.
We just
never know who will be Jesus for us. Jesus is everywhere. Jesus lives in us. We
can see Jesus every day. That is what the angel told Mary Magdalene and the
other Mary on that first Easter morning.
Let’s
take a closer look at that Easter morning story, then, so we can get an idea
how this all started.
28 1-4 After the Sabbath, as the
first light of the new week dawned, Mary Magdalene and the other Mary came to keep vigil at the tomb.
Suddenly the earth reeled
and rocked under their feet as God’s angel came down from heaven, came right up to where they
were standing. He rolled
back the stone and then sat on it. Shafts of lightning blazed from him.
His garments shimmered snow-white. The guards at the tomb were scared to death.
They were so frightened, they couldn’t move.
5-6 The angel spoke to the women:
“There is nothing to fear here. I know you’re looking for Jesus, the One they
nailed to the cross. He is
not here. He was raised, just as he said. Come and look at the place
where he was placed.
7 “Now, get on your way
quickly and tell his disciples, ‘He is risen from the dead. He is going on ahead of you to
Galilee. You will see
him there.’ That’s
the message.”
8-10 The women, deep in wonder and
full of joy, lost
no time in leaving the tomb. They ran to tell the disciples. Then Jesus met them, stopping them in their tracks.
“Good morning!” he said. They fell to their knees, embraced his feet, and
worshiped him. Jesus said, “You’re holding on to me for dear life! Don’t be
frightened like that. Go tell
my brothers that they are to go to Galilee, and that I’ll meet them there.”
The angel said “You will see him. That’s the message.” They
saw him, and he told them to tell his brothers that they would see him too.
People were going to keep seeing Jesus. That is the miracle message of Easter.
We will keep seeing Jesus. Even today, we will keep seeing Jesus.
For a season of my life, I met with a prayer partner every
other week. This was a follow up to a spiritual retreat we both attended called
The Walk to Emmaus. When we met each week we asked one another a series of
questions. One of them was this: where did you see Jesus this week? It’s a
provocative question. Every week we would share with one another where we had
seen Jesus. The question calls to mind for me the story that comes late in
Matthew’s Gospel, not much before the Holy Week narratives.
Do you remember this one? Jesus is telling
some stories and then he says that there will come a time when the Son will
judge the people at the end of their lives and will separate the sheep from the
goats (meaning those who have done well and those who have not). And he says, those
judged favorably will be those who:
·
saw
Jesus hungry and fed him,
·
saw
Jesus thirsty and gave him a drink
·
saw
Jesus homeless and gave him a room,
·
saw
Jesus shivering and gave him clothes,
·
saw
Jesus sick and stopped to visit,
·
saw
Jesus in prison and went to visit
I might add, who saw Jesus being bullied,
and stood with him.
The people are confused because, of course,
they never saw Jesus in any of those ways. And he says, “Whenever you did one
of these things to someone overlooked or ignored, that was me—you did it to
me.”
Now this is fascinating because Jesus
actually turns the tables. He tells us not to see Jesus in the person doing
good, but in the person who needs help. In my story, I said the union rep who
helped Bobbie was acting like Jesus. But if we apply this scripture, Bobbie
would be Jesus. The person who was overlooked or ignored is Jesus. The hurting
person is Jesus. Jesus told his followers that when you help the person in need
you are caring for Jesus.
This is what it means to live as
Resurrection people. It means that we see the living risen Christ in everyone.
You see, if I tell you that you need to be like
Jesus, that is too much pressure. If I tell you that you need to love like
Jesus and forgive like Jesus, I know what you are going to say. “I’m not Jesus.
I am imperfect. He was JESUS! The Son of God. He was full of God and God’s
love. I am not able to love somebody like Mean Guy.”
Okay, fine. I can’t be that Jesus either. I
lose patience. I lose my temper.
Maybe Jesus is not asking us to be Jesus.
He is asking something more intriguing.
When we look at another person, can we see
Jesus, who was beaten, betrayed, denied, spat upon, and nailed up on a cross?
And then rose from the dead? When we see Mean Guy, and the person who makes us
crazy, can we look into their eyes, and see Jesus in them?
I am thinking of the person who I am really
mad at right now. And I want you to picture your person. Because when I picture
that person and imagine that Jesus is in him, then my hatred softens just a
little, and I want to cut him some slack. He is doing the best he can with the
hand he has been dealt.
And what I really want for both of us, is
new life. I want the stone to be rolled away, and I want death to be turned
into life. I don’t want to waste my energy being mad at that person. I don’t
think Bobbie wants to waste one more second of one more day being in conflict
with Mean Guy. She just wants to do the job that she loves and get on with her
life. She wants to live into the post resurrection Easter miracle.
This is how we do that. We see Jesus in
every person. Even if they don’t see Jesus in themselves. We see Jesus in them.
We don’t have to tell them we see Jesus. We don’t have to push it on them. But
if we see Jesus in every person, we will treat them differently, and our
relationships with them will be different. I promise you that.
When we see Jesus in another person we will
breathe new life into our relationships with them. We will be moved to care for
them in ways we never thought we would be able. Our care won’t be from our own
power but from Jesus in us. This is what Easter is about – seeing Jesus. The
women saw Jesus, the disciples saw Jesus. They were never the same. The world
was never the same. We can see Jesus too. We can see Jesus in every face of
every person we encounter every day. When we see Jesus we will be changed and
we will change the world.
So let’s follow the invitation of that
angel who rolled away the stone. Jesus is not in the tomb. He is in the world.
We can see him. Look around. See Jesus.
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