Sunday, March 31, 2013

LOOK FOR THE LIVING by Cheri Holdridge (with an assist by Kurt Young)



Yesterday was a long lazy day at my house. We did not have any demands on our time, which was a welcome change. The kids are on Spring Break but of course we did not go anywhere because it’s Easter and it was pretty important that I be here today. I noticed that a couple of my clergy friends posted little statements on their Facebook pages on the day between Good Friday and Easter Sunday. One wrote: “The clock ticks slowly on Holy Saturday, pressing us beyond our capacities. It was a day fashioned for hand-wringing. Waiting and hand-wringing - alone. Utterly alone.” 

You see, it is so easy for us to jump to the joy of Easter Sunday isn’t it. We come here on Palm Sunday. And then truth be told, we would prefer to skip over that crucifixion part. The truth of the Crucifixion is just too unpleasant. It is much better just to get to the good part of Easter Sunday. 

But in order to understand the weight of the day, we really need to try to put ourselves in the mindset of Jesus’ close friends on days before Sunday morning. 

For the men and women who loved Jesus those hours on Friday after he died, and the long day on and night of Saturday night were hours when they were overcome with grief. They were walking through that fog of grief that we have all been through, at least those of us who have lost someone close to us to death. You know the fog, you feel lost. You know the person is gone. Death is final. There is no turning back from death. They saw him take his last breath and then they watched as his lifeless body taken down from the cross. And they wept. 

Just try to imagine, then, what on earth it must have felt like to be Mary Magdalene, Joanna, Mary the mother of James, and the other women who went to the tomb that morning. They were in mourning for a dead man.  They were wearing the clothes of grieving.   They went to do some ritual anointing, rituals they could not do immediately when he died, because it was the Sabbath. 

When they got there, the stone was rolled away and the tomb was empty. 

Remember, death is final. That is a physical truth, we know that.  The women went to a tomb. And then they find the tomb empty. I don’t about you, but if I had found the tomb empty my first reaction would have been disbelief, and then anger. What now? More indignity? Is it not enough that they beat him and drew lots for his clothes and then left him to die. Now someone has stolen his body so we can’t even give him a proper burial? This is the worst indignity ever.  

And then these dazzling men began to unfold the situation for them. “Remember how he told you that he would be given over to sinners, and crucified and on the third day he would rise from the dead?” How could they forget something that important? “Why are you looking for the living among the dead?” they asked. Why indeed!

The truth became clear to the women and they believed! So the women went and told the men. And guess what happened. The men thought it was an idle tale. Imagine that! The men did not believe the women. Well, we will forgive them, because, after all, it was a pretty unbelievable tale. However, the men were curious enough that they went to the empty tomb to see for themselves. But the truth has a way. The scripture says “when they saw for themselves they were amazed.” The truth became clear to the men also and they believed!  Truth finds a way.

On Easter morning, the followers of Jesus woke up to the most miraculous event ever known to the world. We have heard the story so many times, though, we expect it. We take for granted that Jesus did not really die for good. Most of us don’t even want to come to worship on Holy Thursday or Good Friday. We don’t want to see the picture that we had on the screen last Sunday of Jesus carrying that cross, because it makes us uncomfortable. We know he is going to be raised from the dead, so why do we have to hear that gruesome story year after year? 

You see, we can’t really comprehend the impact of this gift of new life, until we realize that God walked through death with us to get there. 

Jesus suffered every possible human pain we can imagine. So God understands our fears, our regrets, and our suffering. Jesus felt it with us and for us. God still feels it with us. But when Jesus died on that cross, he died to take our fears, our regrets and our suffering with him to the grave. 

So when he rose from the grave, free from death, he frees us from those fears, regrets and suffering. Everything changes for us because Jesus did not die. We have the freedom to leave behind our fears and regrets and our suffering, because we live in God. We live a life surrounded by God and God’s love. THIS IS HUGE. This changes everything.   Easter morning changes everything.

When the women went to the tomb, the men (or angels) in dazzling robes asked them a question: “Why do you look for the living among the dead? He is not here. He has risen.”   The angels we will call them told them that. 

Besides telling them the amazing news that Jesus was resurrected, I think they were also telling them women to stop lingering in death, go and LIVE. 

This is our invitation on this Easter Sunday. The witnesses to the resurrection ask us: Are we going to walk around surrounded by death and the things that bring death? Or will we live as people free from the brokenness of this world and full of the life that comes from God’s second chances?  Will we accept God’s second chance.

My friend Sr. Paulette Schroeder tells a story of how long it can take a person to turn around and receive this healing love of God, and receive that second chance. Paulette’s life work is peace. She works for peace in many ways, one of those ways is that she cares for people in our prison system and she opposes the death penalty. Apparently, back in 1976 she started corresponding with a young man who was then 18 and sentenced to death for “being an accomplice to the killing of an undercover policeman in a pharmacy drug theft.” She has corresponded with him for all these years, and visited with him too. She wrote in a blog post this week: 

“My friend is a brilliant man who, unfortunately, used his intelligence in devious rather than productive ways for 33 of his 37 years in prison. He played the prison game.” She said he had no religious faith and she suspected he was involved with criminal activities within the prison system. At times when he seemed discouraged she would suggest he “try God” but he we not receptive. Finally about 4 years ago “the right person in the system crossed his path,” he attended Mass, and asked to study the Catholic rite of initiation. A year ago he was baptized. She writes: “This restless, crime-bent man had found purpose, meaning!  He had surrendered his ego! He had allowed someone else to lead him! . . . .Faith had grabbed hold of him. His heart was full of joy, full of life. Smiling often during our visit, he sometimes paused in a soft faraway look:  “Is it real, Paulette?  Am I really the person to whom all this has happened? Would you have believed it 10 years ago, Sister Paulette, that we would be sitting here today sharing and laughing and FREELY talking about God! My humanity is coming back to me!”

       Sister Paulette worked patiently with this man for 37 years. It took him a long time to escape from the grave, to escape the grave he created for himself on this earth, in order to live in the freedom that comes when we give our lives over to God.  He can’t erase the consequences in his life and that of others.

     This is what the Easter story is about: choosing not to live in the graveyard of our brokenness, but to live as resurrection people. Mary Magdalene and Joanna and the other Mary were looking for death but they found life.

      You see, in one way or another, we all need to choose life over death. Your situation is not as extreme as the young man living on death row. But we all would do well to focus on living, to get out of the graveyards of our lives: our fears our regrets, our sorrows. God wants us to claim the resurrection life that God desires for us.  God has wonderful plans for each one of us here and now, but we all have things we need to let go of so that we can take the next step into that new life.  It’s a wonderful future.

     A couple of years ago, the Patheos web site asked some of their bloggers to answer the question: “Why I Need the Resurrection.” I want to share a couple of their responses with you.

Why I Need the Resurrection by Kara Root
I need the Resurrection
because my sister is sick
and can't afford insurance,
because I've told a weeping Haitian mom,
"No, I can't take your son home with me."
because I've been rushed off a Jerusalem street
so a robot could blow up a bag that could've blown up us.
because I've exploded in rage
and watched their tiny faces cloud with hurt.
because evil is pervasive and I participate.
I need the Resurrection
because it promises
that in the end
all wrongs are made right.
Death loses. Hope triumphs.
And Life and Love Prevail.

Why I Need the Resurrection by Amy Julia Becker
Shower, breakfast, kids to school, myself to work, go running, make dinner, kids to bed, check email, sleep. It's easy to forget. But after the earthquake in Haiti, I need the resurrection. When my friend’s parents die in a plane crash, I need the resurrection. When another IED explodes, I need the resurrection. And when I see the flash of blue and yellow of a bird in flight, when apartheid ends, when my kids hold hands, I need the resurrection. In the sorrow and the joy, the resurrection reminds me: goodness will last, light overcomes darkness, life triumphs over death.

            
How about you? Why do you need the resurrection? What brings you down so that it’s hard for you to live in the freedom that God offers to lift you up.
As a response to the message today, I want to ask you to share your response with a couple of other people. You may have people out there with you or you may have to reach out or maybe you need to share here.  So, why do you need the resurrection?

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